Time keeps slipping away and this space remains stale. It's not that I don't have the time - I can find the time to do what I want. It's not that I don't want to write - I just can't figure out what to write. The divorce is done. The moves are done. Life is moving on. Kind of boring actually compared with all the heavy stuff in the months (okay years) prior.
So, to keep things boring, let me share with you the top ten discoveries of my new life.
1.) Keeping the house clean is really easy when there aren't kids around. Ridiculously easy.
2.) I can go an entire week without washing a single dish when the boys are at their dad's. In fact, I can go an entire week without even filling the sink with my dirty dishes.
3.) Laundry can now be done in three loads (or less) per week. Kind of boggles my mind but it's true. And that includes all the towels.
4.) I tend to feel like I'm forgetting something when it's not my week with the boys.
5.) Not having the boys every other week does not correlate to increased exercise, reading or writing. Ahem.
6.) I actually don't mind making the boys' beds when they leave for the week. Makes me feel good that their rooms look tidy and they're nice for when they return.
7.) Garbage and recyclables need to go out whether or not the boys are around to do it. :/
8.) The cat is far more sociable when the boys are not around.
9.) Every other week the TV belongs exclusively to me. I can watch whatever I want exactly whenever I want.
10.) I really miss the boys when they're not here but also manage to occupy my time in a fulfilling way.
Anyway, like I said, a little bit boring. But it's my new life. And I'm settling in.
P.S. - bonus points if you can find something a little different about this page.